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Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Soul Mate Attraction Tip #1

My first piece of advice if you're trying to "attract" your soul partner in to your life is to be clear about who you are and WHY you want this partner to "show up". Many of us get in to relationships because we think it will "fill something" we don't really (if we were true to ourselves) need filled.

Know yourself and be honest about who you really are and what you need in a partner; skip all the Hollywood Make-Over nonsense -- really get inside yourself and listen . . . in order to find someone you can really love, you have to (a) first love yourself and (b) know yourself well enough so that you can tell, and silently express, that "truth" to your partner.

It is also much better to be a little less than "perfect" than pretend you're something you're not -- 'cause it will it come out eventually. Be truthful, right up front, warts and all.

To find your soul partner, you must first find yourself. Be happy, too, with what you find. Think of it this way, if YOU don't like yourself, why would anybody else? It's like a bad Marx Brothers routine -- you wouldn't want any partner who would have you.

A soul mate is someone who typically enters your life to help you get back "on track" in order to better manifest the optimal path for your soul's evolution. Not all soul mates, then, are romantic partners just as not all romantic partners are soul mates.

But . . . to find that deep, spiritual Give praise to life PARTNER, my suggestion is to do kind things, be in a space of giving and forgiveness. Try to feel optimistic. Smile.

Be open to magic. Love YOURSELF first :)

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